Stuff on the forum may have been conjecture. If a reputable news agency reported that they didn't have a warning, then I'd assume they didn't
GaryW is correct, Iridium were warned that this pass would be "dangerously close pass", which effectively tells you to move your butt. Normally you just get warnings saying "near pass" or "close pass" which as far as I know everyone ignores.
ESA got a "dangerously close" for a satellite I work with a few months ago and everyone involved instantly went into action. It's not something you hang around with (as you typically only hear a few days to a few hours before it happens). Iirc, we moved the satellite just under half a day after receiving the message. Iridium should have done the same, but for some reason they didn't.
Perhaps whoever got the message didn't have authority to pass it to the right person, or perhaps they just debated it too long. Either way they lost a satellite and created a significant hazard for everyone else.
Poor form, tbh.