I hope I am getting my math right here: The ISP for LH2/LOX (I'm modeling after that because the lander may be reused as a hopper later on) is 450s I multiplied that by 9.8m/(s^2) and got 4410m/s for the Ve. Now what? I know the TLI DeltaV is 4100m/s but I'm not entirely sure how to proceed from there. Do I plug the starting mass in and find the "dry" mass? If that was what I was supposed to do, then I get 6231.2 kg from the original mass of 53000kg that I received from the data on the falcon heavy. Thats only TLI. Wikipedia had 16000kg down for TLI for the falcon heavy under:
Comparison of orbital launch systems - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
so what did I do wrong?
First, 4.1 km/s is not TLI, it's TLI + LLO insertion. TLI itself is about 3km/s. This diagram has it all broken down nicely:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:ApolloEnergyRequirementsMSC1966.png ( and while we are at it, here is a program for recovering data from graphs:
http://www.frantz.fi/software/g3data.php ). So with 55 tons IMLEO and LH2/LOX upper stage you get about 11 tons past TLI.
Second, it's enough to put the spacecraft in a transfer orbit with apoapsis beyond the EML1 point (i.e. about 300'000 km). Once it gets past EML1, the Moon's gravity will capture it, and it will enter a lunar orbit. Then, do a periapsis burn to lower apoapsis so you are not recaptured by Earth again

This takes longer than a direct transfer, so not good for humans, but robots should be OK.
Third, there is saving related to using launch vehicle's upper stage for TLI, as opposed to using the two-stage vehicle to lift up your own kick stage into LEO and using that for TLI. So, keeping in mind the previous point, this is what I get from the calculator:
Launch Vehicle: Falcon Heavy w/standard fairing
Launch Site: Cape Canaveral / KSC
Destination Orbit: 185 x 300000 km, 31 deg
Estimated Payload: 15867 kg
95% Confidence Interval: 12988 - 19320 kg
Ta-dah! It seems that 16 tons past TLI is indeed true! (Inclination is critical. 31 deg is from Apollo 11.)
That greatly simplifies things. We'll simply put the lander directly atop Falcon. Per the above diagram, we'll need about 1 km/s dV for insertion and 2 km/s dV for landing. That's 3 km/s. Using LCH4/LOX, 16 tons wet mass works out to
2 6.5 tons dry mass. Payload is half that, so, you get
1 3.2 ton rover on the surface.
Since we have Orbiter

and Delta-Glider has a nice delta-v indicator on the lower panel, I'd use that to check. Start in a 185 x 185 km orbit, raise apoapsis to 300'000 km, transfer to the Moon, lower apoapsis and land. Write down the delta-v actually expended in each step and use that for calculations.
Hope this helps
EDIT: *Facepalm* The rocket equation uses NATURAL logarithm, so, if you are using Excel to calculate this, the correct function to use is LN() not LOG(), which calculates decimal logarithm. (In most programming languages log() is the natural logarithm while log10() is decimal log.). Hence the striked out numbers above...
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If the initial mass is 53 metric tons(mT), this ratio results in 21 mT final mass. Note though this includes both the propulsive stage dry mass and the payload mass. However, the 16 mT number to TLI for the Falcon Heavy means only payload to TLI. And it is not using any additional stages, such as a Centaur, just the Falcon Heavy.
One thing to keep in mind is that Falcon Heavy uses a kerolox upper stage (342s Isp per wikipedia), while Centaur is LH2/LOX.
So, paradoxically, you get better performance by putting Centaur as a third stage on Falcon, then when using Falcon itself up to TLI. But, if I was engineering, I would probably NOT go with Centaur, because of the cost and hassle involved in integrating this. For a robotic mission, 16tons past TLI is plenty anyway.
Now, if SpaceX built a proper LH2/LOX upper stage, it would be sweet...
