De-orbit generally requires something on the order of 100 m/s delta-V, which is not trivial for a solar sail, but if you can control your attitude you should be able cause a de-orbit after a few orbits.
Spaceship One doesn't reach orbit, so there is no de-orbit. The feather technique increases the surface area of the fuselage facing into the relative wind in order to maintain high drag and a low airspeed in order to reduce hull heating during re-entry.