Great, now I'm depressed

[Pilot7893]

Today was crap. I waited a week to get a reply from a girl I like on whether or not she would be my girl friend, then got a "I'm sorry, I don't think so." WHen I checked my E-mail, I saw someone had left the following comment in my inbox on Youtube-
"yo f*g you s**K d**k i hope u burn in hel u got no grlfrend loser"
Normally, I wouldn't take this personally, but after what happened, I feel pretty down. Now if you'll excuse me, I'm going onto howdoikillmyself.com

 

[ar81]

Well, I got a big "NO" 9 times (9 different girls in period of time of several months) before I could get a "YES" for the first time from a girl.
I would not be too depressed if I was you.
If someone wants to poke you, I would not listen.
Someone has too much spare time, and no life, so he has to try tolive yours by poking you.

Girls are not as predictable as videogames.
It will take years before you understand them.

People will push you to live adult things, and they will have kids, get divorced, have unpayable bills in a time of crisis, lots of stress, etc. It is ok not to live too fast. It is better to do it right. People will make you feel like a freak for this, but what do they know about the future, about being mature? Live it right, enjoy, take your time, do not rush. And as years pass, you will find who was right.

The right girl will come in due time... when you are really ready to have a good relationship. I found the right one after 30.

From 15 to 24 years old biochemical processes due to growth process cause yu to feel depressed. So your brain will be cheated to believe the world is worst than it is. It is a biochemical illusion. Sometimes you will feel the world is falling upon you. Try not to give it too much importance. It can be survived.

 

[Ghostrider]

Plenty of fish in the sea, dude. BTW, don't get mad: get even.

 

[Eagle]

Yeah, you're going to get rejected at least 9/10 times. The trick is to keep asking girls until one says yes.

Don't let it get you down, it happens to everyone.

I suggest doing something fun with your friends. Get over this girl as soon as possible so you can see the others around you.

 

[Pilot7893]

thanks

 

[Missioncmdr]

Wow! Girls send you e-mails? I have not had anything that could be even be loosely defined as a conversation with a girl my age in almost 7 months.

(What a weird way to make someone else feel better.)

 

[James.Denholm]

I've fallen into sorts of depressions several times. It helps to drink a lot, and I mean, a lot, of water, as that dilutes the chemicals that are affecting the functioning of your brain. I think.

Just forget about her. There's not much else I can say. Rejection hits a lot of people often. But there's many more out there.

As for the cyber-bullying, if you ever get anything like that, there's a big shiny "Delete Comment" or "Block Contact" button that was designed for that very reason. Besides, if they can't insult you face to face, their comments aren't even worth a second glance.

And finally, but most importantly, remember that there is no need to end it all. Just calm yourself, take a breather, go for a fairly long run, and work your way through it.

 

[Zatnikitelman]

I think I had it worse off these past few weeks. There's this girl I've had a crush on since basically day 1 of college. About 7 weeks ago now, I finally got the urge to talk to her after class that Monday, then saw here agin, but didn't get to speak to her that Wednesday and I haven't seen her since. For about 4 of those weeks, every Monday and Wednesday after my first class with her, I'd be massively depressed, my serotonin level had to have been bottoming out.
So at least the girl you know is still there, I have no idea where the girl I like is, or what happened to her.
You're not the only one, and you're not alone. Good luck, perhaps you'll have another chance with her.

 

[Arrowstar]

Girls are not as predictable as videogames.
It will take years before you understand them.

I beg to differ. A few lifetimes is more like it.

 

[Pilot7893]

Wow! Girls send you e-mails? I have not had anything that could be even be loosely defined as a conversation with a girl my age in almost 7 months.

(What a weird way to make someone else feel better.)

It wasn't her, just some ramdom troll

 

[Missioncmdr]

I've fallen into sorts of depressions several times. It helps to drink a lot, and I mean, a lot, of water, as that dilutes the chemicals that are affecting the functioning of your brain. I think.

I can tell you from experience that is probably not true. Going to the bathroom every 45 minutes does not help depression! :lol:

 

[James.Denholm]

]So at least the girl you know is still there, I have no idea where the girl I like is, or what happened to her.

Ach, that sounds rather painful... Remember, though, that you might be able to work out who her friends were, ask them if they know where she went...

Remember, the worst thing that could happen is that she might have been a European exchange student or something who decided to study abroad, and you spend a couple of years searching for her...

 

[Coolhand]

I beg to differ. A few lifetimes is more like it.

nah, not even then... as my 26 past lives and 30 past wives have taught me:rofl:

If its gonna work at all then you'll know, cos she'll give you signs - look for lingering looks from afar, eye contact, smiles (but don't go nuts and keep staring or anything, look away first, perhaps with a wry smile. heh.. too much and she'll be creeped out) play it cool, and if she wants to be with you, she'll at least make herself available to talk to.

Just try not to worry about it too much, try and enjoy your life and your own interests, meet as many people your own age as you can, be nice to people at parties but don't be too nice all the time... you're allowed to put yourself first when necessary... nothing will put a girl off quicker (assuming she likes you a bit to begin with) than you seeming to be desperate for her attention.

also, although you wanna be cool about it, you need to make your move sooner than later -tell her how you feel, and if shes not into you then get over it and move on... don't get sucked into the 'friend' trap... ugh... i've been there a few times and thats happened to everyone i know at least once. Like the others said, you'll have more misses than hits.. esp at your age, dont worry, it gets easier as you get older.

As for internet tough guys, they're mostly complete p****ys in real life... just block it, ignore it, dont let it get to you, thats the best way, i've had tons of internet abuse and it's all from pretty pathetic individuals.

 

[Eagle]

I think I had it worse off these past few weeks. There's this girl I've had a crush on since basically day 1 of college. About 7 weeks ago now, I finally got the urge to talk to her after class that Monday, then saw here agin, but didn't get to speak to her that Wednesday and I haven't seen her since. For about 4 of those weeks, every Monday and Wednesday after my first class with her, I'd be massively depressed, my serotonin level had to have been bottoming out.
So at least the girl you know is still there, I have no idea where the girl I like is, or what happened to her.
You're not the only one, and you're not alone. Good luck, perhaps you'll have another chance with her.

She probably dropped or withdrew from that class. Wouldn't fret over somebody you never talked to, she likely had a really annoying trait.

 

[Star explorer]

Today was crap. I waited a week to get a reply from a girl I like on whether or not she would be my girl friend, then got a "I'm sorry, I don't think so." WHen I checked my E-mail, I saw someone had left the following comment in my inbox on Youtube-
"yo f*g you s**K d**k i hope u burn in hel u got no grlfrend loser"
Normally, I wouldn't take this personally, but after what happened, I feel pretty down. Now if you'll excuse me, I'm going onto howdoikillmyself.com

who the heck actually tells anybody about stuff like whats happend to you. :rofl:

nah just kidding (well kinda of kidding) anyways dude don't fret its just one girl out of the many you will "meet" in your life. if this doesent make you feel better theres always plan B described in this smile face
(again just kidding)

don't get mad: get even.

thats some good advice right there

 

[Hielor]

Girlfriends are more trouble than they're worth 99% of the time, frankly.

 

[Urwumpe]

There are 4 billion women on this planet, and she is now the last in row. If it is a she.

Who rejects like that on Youtube, usually deserves to be turned into a girl.

When it comes to love, always remember: Who fights can loose. Who does not fight, has already lost. Don't keep trying - do it. Trying is for losers.

And if I remember correctly... I was the guy who rejected many girls for about two years before I asked a girl myself... was the girl with which I was exchanging pretty bad insults for years since we had been kids out of unknown reasons. Until we both ran out of insults.

 

[Donamy]

It's good she dissed you, she would have been in the way, when a better one comes around.

 

[Star explorer]

Girlfriends are more trouble than they're worth 99% of the time, frankly.

more trouble than there worth what about when they do suff like [CENSORED] and [CENSORED] or [CENSORED].

:rofl::lol:

 

[Urwumpe]

more trouble than there worth what about when they do suff like [CENSORED] and [CENSORED] or [CENSORED].

:rofl::lol:

You mean like: Washing clothes, cook food, keep the kids away from your orbiter installation?