No...we are threatening North Korea for developing something with less than 1/10th of the power because it's run by a raving lunatic that likes play with nuclear warheads. Grown ups don't like their children play with dangerous toys, and someone needs to counter children like North Korea and spank them for being naughty.
And what gives us the right to decide that North Korea is a naughty child? Just because they don't agree with us? That's not very democratic, is it?
Or perhaps it's because of this mythical concept of freedom, and their civilian's lack of freedom. Then again, we impose so many sanctions on them that surely we're breaching the freedoms of their country. It's immensely hypocritical that we complain about all these other countries whilst our own are, in some ways, no better.